Our values, our model, and our resources.

My guiding principle will always be helping people find long lasting partnerships based on the values of reciprocity, curiosity, and respect.

My model is built around helping you most efficiently find your partner, and supporting you in showing up as the best version of yourself in all of your relationships stages.

Content:

My content is available completely free on a number of platforms and it serves to help support daters across a spectrum of experiences.

I focus on breaking down American dating culture so you can feel prepared and confident.

I’ll cover everything from:

How to get the best service in restaurants and bars when you’re out on dates.

Basic and, advanced etiquette.

How to engage your date in conversation to best get to know them and keep the conversation flowing.

How to communicate; boundaries, needs, expectations and everything in between with respect and kindness.

How to avoid needless conflict and make necessary conflict productive.

How to use your actions to show your intentions at every stage in the relationship.

As well as practical skills to build a life that anyone would want to join you in.

How live a romantic life, even if you aren't in a romantic relationship. 

How to most sustainably, and efficiently clean a home.

How to meal prep, packing a freezer full of ready to eat meals to help you and your partner get to meal times faster and spend less time cleaning.

Affordable self care and body maintenance; how to take care of your skin and oral health.

Live Streaming:

I will be announcing a live streaming schedule on my socials and in my newsletter.

My live streams will be more casual and unscripted. I will be doing home based activities like cooking, cleaning, exercising and studying. "Body doubling". 

Join me on a routine of regular self improvement as we work together on our goals and encourage one another. Everything is more fun in a community.

Events:

I will always choose activities that are worth doing, affordable, and enriching.

So far we have meet up planned at farmers markets, specialty markets, museums, the aquarium, the zoo, and a few parks.  

Match Making:

Match Making will be soft launched in Autumn. The first 100 people to sign up for events will be offered free Match Making for the first year.

Private Consulting:

As a certified life coach I can help you work on a wide spectrum of goals relating to finding your life partner. 

Cultivating personal style that reflects you.

Making your living space a space that is both comfortable and functional but also mature and stylish.

Long term goals like weight loss, fitness.

I have also been consulting a wide range of professionals to get us the best prices for services from:

Dentists and orthodontists.

Dermatologists.

Therapists. 

Nutritionists. 

Personal trainers. 

Aesthetic professionals. 

Resources:

Whether you are new to dating, or just new to Chicago I want to give you the tools to be prepared and show up confident.

Having an emergency?

Example; On a date and they have a medical emergency?

Call 911.

In Chicago and having a nonemergency problem?

Example; On a date and your car got towed?

Call 311.

Do you have questions about sexual health or want to book an appointment for STI testing, or contraceptive care?

https://www.plannedparenthood.org/

Have you experienced sexual abuse and need help?

https://rainn.org/

Do you need gender affirming care or care on a sliding scale?

Including dental and mental health services?

https://howardbrown.org/